Unhappy on Being Single After Split with Husband or Wife?

The husband and wife are bound to live together to show to everyone that love is stronger than everything.

Living together as husband and wife is the most precious moment in life, which opposed by many as they go along the way after marriage. 

Walking along to marriage is not an easy path, that is why a lot of couple today prefer to be single and apparently, broke relationship and live with a single life.

 How is life after split of husband and wife?

I am into the moment of reading about Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt split and her confession about the life of being single. Angelina Jolie made a heartbreaking confession about her split with Brad Pitt on Sept. 2. In a new interview, the actress revealed that being single isn’t enjoyable at all and it’s actually taken a toll on her. Angelina Jolie, 42, is still coming to terms with her newfound independence. The actress opened up about her devastating split with Brad Pitt, 53, on Sept. 2.

She said, “I don’t enjoy being single. It’s not something I wanted,” Angelina revealed. “There are no upsides, there’s nothing nice about it. It’s just hard.” Angelina also confessed that she’s always trying to stay strong, no matter what happens. 

I totally understand Jolie about this, it's really hard especially if you have kids. It is not easy to raise kids alone, manage everything alone and absolutely its not enjoyable if you have no one to quarrel to, to be angry sometimes at no reason at all.

So why stay single? All Single parent are strong people, despite of the struggle in life they still believe in love. Why not get a second chance? It may not be your husband's chance but a chance to someone you can fall into. 

Well, Jolie is on the healing process already, and hoping she can find a new someone, or might give Pitt another chance. Who knows right?

Lupus Signs and Symptoms and The Success of Patient's Treatment

Year 2003 I had a Lupus patient named Amber. He was losing weight so much, got a frown and dried face, she even looked like she was carrying the whole world with her.

I asked her the signs and symptoms she noticed from the day she started feeling unease to her body and her health.

Signs and Symptoms of Lupus for Amber:

Note: Not all Lupus patients have the same signs and symptoms.

• Always feeling tired even if taking enough sleep, she ate regularly yet tired and feeling pained all the time. Small pain took it like the end of the world. She had loosen her appetite for exercising.
• Loosing appetite everyday
• Everytime exposed to sunlight, skin were getting red, itchy and painful.
• Pained the whole body most of the time even if there was no reason to feel pained. A small bite of an ant made her sick to the bone.
• The left foot was swelling at first, the next week both feet were enlarged and swelling.
• Along the fight of the terrible pain, her feet were getting dark everyday and the dark skin color went up to her waist which added more pain.
• Amber had a hard cough, she took initial treatment (the common medicine for cough) but it didn't work. It's even getting worse day by day.
• She had a high fever at night and it lowered down during daytime. 

 These symptoms are one of the basis for a Lupus patients, however, I couldn't come up with the conclusion just yet.

I asked her to do all the tests necessary to confirmed my suspicion. Luckily, Amber was not a hard lady to talk to. She did everything I told her.

After a week, it was confirmed that Lupus Disease is highly-active to Amber.

Steps I made to help her heal Lupus.

• Sent her to admission for 3 days.

• Clearing the infections with all the medicines provided.

• After 3 days, she went home with medicines for maintenance.

  Amber was determined to cure her Lupus Disease and she totally devote herself to every detail I told her.

  I gave her all the advice to help her heal.

  After 6 months, Amber's progress was quite amazing. She maintained  the right vital and good heath to her body which made me decide to cut down some of the maintenance intake. 
  
  She consistently showed good progress every month and we both decided to have her follow-ups every six months.
  
  After 2 years, I advice her to take ANA test again if Lupus was still active and just sleeping or any of that...
  Luckily, Amber got a negative result and cleared with Lupus. Right after that confirmation, she got pregnant and born a healthy baby boy.
  
  Note: Lupus patients are forbid to get pregnant. 

Doctor's Common Advice To Help Heal Lupus Illness

Every doctor has it's own ways of treating their patients. This article is based from the doctor's experience on the successful healing to one of her Lupus patients back in 2013, "Amber".

Lupus will kill a person slowly until your immune system cannot function.

Just a piece of advice here, please always consult your doctor because my doctor's advice might not work for you, then you can have a better option to see your own doctor.

DOCTOR'S COMMON ADVICE TO HELP HEAL LUPUS ILLNESS

• Monthly follow-ups are a must (do not miss a follow-ups even if you are feeling okay, because Lupus is a striker disease).
• Do not miss taking medicines provided even once.
• Monitoring all Laboratory Tests are necessary everytime the doctor asked you to have them.
• Eat well (healthy foods) do not skip meals
• Avoid direct contact to sunlight (because of the UV rays, it can trigger your Lupus to attack)
• Always use sunblock for face skin protection, use body lotion with high SPF's.
• Avoid crowded people (Lupus patients are easily get contacted with bacteria and infections).
• Wear a mask if needed
• Avoid being stressed on the mind and heart (Lupus will usually attack the heart, kidney and skin at anytime.
• Sleep well and relax

As you can see all advice here should come with the patient's responsibility. I remember 1 time I miss to visit my doctor for monthly follow-ups, my doctor really nagged to what will happen if I will always do that and all of that stuff. She was kind of angry. And to realized she was right, We should work together to be successful.

Apple Devices are Coming - What to Expect

Apple . . .  Apple . . . Apple. . . The most expensive phone in the world.

Every fan of Apple brand are so excited for the upcoming launch of new Apple Devices to be released on September this year, as usual that could probably take place on the 12th of September.

Lists of Devices to be released and What to Expect:

1. iPhones - iPhone 7S, iPhone 7S Plus and iPhone 8

2. First Cellular Apple Watch

3. 4K Apple TV set-top

 There is no much change of the features on iPhone 7S and iPhone 7S Plus just an incremental updates. While iPhone 8 has its all new look. 

Features of these iPhones or what to expect:

The features posted here are not complete, since we need to check Apple's updates first.

• OLED display that has richer colors

• Wireless Charging

• A Virtual Home Button

• Facial Recognition Technology

  It's a WOW... right?

  However, as we always expect, the prices are not friendly. The prices of these phones starts at $1,200 which is more and even twice the price of iPhone 7.

  
  

  In my perspective, if I can spend that much or if I have enough to spend that price I would go for it because Apple is durable and it has what it takes based on my experiences from iPhone 3g, 3gs, 4s and 7Plus.

  Additional Products Revelation on this event

  1. First Cellular Apple Watch

  2. 4K Apple TV set-top

     It is also part of the business the what so-called limit the first release. Expected also that this release is not enough for the customers, the release might be limited only to test the sales income of these product.
     
     If you wish to buy one of these products you have to join the long lines outside the Apple store by then.

Lupus Disease - Killing me Softly

Lupus is a chronic autoimmune disease in which the body's immune system becomes hyperactive and attacks normal, healthy tissue. This results in symptoms such as inflammation, swelling, and damage to joints, skin, kidneys, blood, the heart, and lungs.

In 2013, when I went home (back to my childhood homeland) with my family (husband and two kids) was my happiest decision to stay closer to my parents for good.

Our life seemed good enough to have a good life. My husband found a good job just a walking distance to our home. I had no job since I prefer to focus taking care of my little kids. I did mostly of household chores, basically washing clothes, cooking, and cleaning (a typical housewife). I love everything I did back then.

After a few months, I just can't imagine to feel something uneasy in my health. I found sleeping so hard, as far as I can remember, there were days passed that I only slept for 1 hour, a times successive sleepless nights. Sleepless made me so stressed that resulted to have swelling and pain in my whole body. I suffered so much pain on my laps. I did not want to eat. My husband took care of me by feeding me food while I laid on my bed. I waited for days hoping to recover everything. Everything was so stressful for me. All I did was to pray and seeking cure for my health.  

I went to the doctor, at first they tried to give me medicine for arthritis because of the swelling and as they have concluded according to my answers during their initial interview. It lessen the pain somehow but I knew to myself that the core pain and the uneasy feeling still present. I always felt tired and its like killing me softly. I lose weight totally, I was thin to the bone.

I went back and forth to the doctor and they always change my medicine to try. I felt very frustrated and it made me more stressed, it added up to my pain.

One of our neighbor told us to visit another physician in another city to let examine my health. I was happy at first but, the same thing - tried medicine and so on...

I went back to our place and try to seek cure from the quack doctor. Superstitious, I was frustrated and hopeless so I did everything. The quack doctor helped me in some other ways, but not the cure of my illness. 

After a year of going back and forth to different doctors, I felt hopeless and decided to have a last chance (last try) check up to another physician.

That general physician told me to have laboratory check especially my blood for ANA test and referred me to a Lupus specialist immediately. 

I undergone the process of healing for Lupus after the result of my ANA. I felt relieved but worried because Lupus Disease is always with me, it can't be healed as many people said. The doctor gave me medicine as my "maintenance medicine" everyday.

The common medicine for Lupus Disease ...

My doctor said, Lupus is my partner forever, however there will be a chance that it can be cured as what she had shared about one of her patients.

I am so much in hope to cure this illness until now.

I will share with you some tips and advice from my doctor hope these can help.

Doctor's Common Advice To Help Heal Lupus Illness